• Birth Trauma

    Every now and then, when I have one of my depression roller-coasters, that ultimately end up with me breaking down, crying, frustrated at life, Dave and I always come together. We sit and we talk to each…

  • Pinterest – Help

    Right. *cracks knuckles, rotates shoulders, flexes guns (muscles)* I’m going to do it. I have put it off for so long. I feel like I’m missing out on the party. I’m going to delve into the blogging…

  • Women – You are Dirty Beasts

    I have, after over a decade of having a shushmenstrual cycle come to the realisation that woman are just walking baby ovens. Huge, hormonal, sex mad, walking incubators of reproduction. Society would have us think that it’s…

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    30 Things…..Changes

    It’s almost time. Time for me to enter a new decade. Time for me to turn 30. I’m not all too fussed about it, age is but a number right? Maybe, look, I don’t want to give…

  • Depression mental health

    Beauty and the Beast

    You can't fight the beast. Only I can fight the beast. I don't hate the beast. I hate that it can take hold of me, for hours, days, weeks. I hate the power it possesses. I hate…

  • A Spontaneous Birth – is that a thing?

    It’s almost the anniversary, the ‘sayonara vagina’ anniversary, otherwise known as Jessica’s’ birthday. At this time of year, I always find myself drifting back two years, reminiscing about the day that changed my life forever, well more…

  • Depression Feminism Mental Health

    Feminism Starts at Home

    Oh the F word, there it is, people get their backs up more by this F word than the other F word. Many people, myself included on occasion, roll their eyes at the mere mention of feminism.…

  • I can’t get no sleep

    I’m going to moan, I’m going to get it out. I just want to sleep. That’s all, sleeeeeep. I want to sleep for more than 8 hours, for one night. No. I take that back, I want…